Parenting : sometimes your up, and sometimes your up all night.

Mom of 4 here, not a lot of time to dive into the deep parts of all things parenting right this moment but during such a weird time, I thought maybe if I could sneak some ways of thinking in while our brains are re wiring and we are learning how to think with our […]

Home of the scared, Land of the convenient.

Welcome to America, Home of the scared, Land of the convenient. As news starts to travel about Bezos creeping up to ‘trillionare’ status, I can’t hep but re-read the line, “the net worth of Bezos has risen from $125billion on April 12 to $143billion on May 5” as written in an article by Marketwatch.com. I cannot […]

“Being honest with yourself is so important to the healing process.”

So here I am, mentally prepared to change my health. I’ve gotten to a good place mentally to take on the next phase of physical health. I haven’t worked out in a long ass time. Like I may have tried once of twice between pregnancies and kids to start but it never stuck and and […]

Start Somewhere.

Well I don’t think the star struck feeling will ever leave me when it comes to all of this, but I am focused on using my gift of writing to show you guys this journey I have been on and that it is not impossible, it’s not hard and that if it’s the one thing […]

WoooHoo!

Damn! I seriously wasn’t expecting 2019 to go out with such a bang for me, but wow! I can’t even begin to express my gratitude and appreciation for all the love and acceptance on the post and article. I honestly didn’t believe it when I was contacted for the interview and then when it was […]

Birthday Lessons

As I sit here on this morning of my 32 birthday I can’t help but reflect on the amount of shit, love and learning I have been through the last 32 years of life. Some of my favorites are as follows…. 1.) You cannot choose your family, we are all pre destined to the place […]

A Little Reminder🤟🏼🌻

Being a mom is exhausting, there’s really no other way to describe it. It’s a beautiful balance of happiness, uncertainty and guilt. It truly is a gift to feel this way but sometimes it becomes a job, one that gets hard to keep up with after a while. Honestly, even just being a wife or […]

The Nightmare After Christmas…☠️🎅🏼🎄

So, as the season of giving approaches and moms and dads alike are across the world losing sleep over the endless ways to give their children the best Christmas in every way and shape possible, might I shed light on a little shameful lesson I have learned over the years… Christmas means this magical time […]

Broken and okay ✌🏼

Anxiety, its got a hold on everyone these days. The more we think the more we question and the more we question the more we fear…Honestly, after 4 kids I have been through more mentally in the last 8 years than I have in the last 30. One thing I have come to reason with […]

Let’s Be Real…

Today my worst fears have been confirmed… Today, we all got to hear from a Police Commissioner, that ‘This is the new normal’. Ya, a bloody devastating massacre at a fun, music festival is normal…. Stock piling 18 or so automatic rifles in a hotel room for days is the new normal so much now […]